Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Croft Blood and OCD

Here is a group of the Croft men and their OCD ways.

Right now Ian counts everything. He counts how many bites are on his plate. How many stairs there are in our house, rocks outside, pictures on the wall, pieces of chicken that are cooking in the pan, cars, and every toy etc, etc, etc. Then he counts them all again. I fear he has the Croft blood and the OCD that comes along with it. Before we know it he will be stepping over shadows, corners or anything else that comes in his path. Or rubbing his thumb against his fingers like his Papa. You, with the Croft blood know what I am talking about. His shoes are never, nor have they ever been on the wrong feet, ever since he could put them on himself, they have always been on the correct feet.
He likes his bed made and his cars lined up in a perfect line, he is a perfectionist at folding his shorts and underwear, if his socks are a little crooked when he puts them on he freaks out. His cereal has to be equally submerged before he starts eating it, he does this by patting it down with the back of his spoon. He is very efficient at brushing his teeth, the same way every time, and usually brushes his tongue 3 times.

Ian is writing now, and if the letters are not perfect he cries and gets so frustrated even if he has never written that letter or number before, he usually says, "but it's not perfect" then cries more.

I know there are more weird things he does, but they are escaping my brain right now. Each time he does one I look at Dustin, shake my head, and say, "Thanks a lot".

I am grateful Ian will play out in the dirt and carry around worms, which means he has a smidgen of Hulet blood. But as soon as he is finished he demands to get in the bath. He doesn't like to stay dirty for long.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Ava

Last night when Dustin got home from work, Ava met him at the door, as she usually does. She didn't have any pants on. Upon seeing this Dustin said, "What are you doing running around in your undies?" Ava replied, "Just messin' around."

Then this morning she was playing with her playdough she got from a birthday party, and she said "I want to make baby Jesus" So I did my best to make a manger and a baby Jesus, after I was finished she jumped up and down yelling "baby Jesus, baby Jesus".

Where do kids come up with these things?

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Verdict

Well it looks like their dad will have 90 days to prove himself. The girls and their dad will go to counseling and he gets them Friday after school and Saturdays. I think it is garbage that the judge didn't even let anyone testify. I am grateful that the girls are still with their grandparents and that they get to go to church on Sundays. I will continue to pray for the strength of the girls, that they can always tell the truth in counseling. Hopefully this won't drag on forever. I don't know how Sandy and Gary are handling this, it has to be so hard and frustrating for them.

The Trial

Today is the trial for Daija and Kayla. My stomach is in knots. I wish I would have just sucked it up and driven out there. Those girls are amazing! They have so much strength and faith. They have been through so much in their short lives. I know that today is in the Lord's hands, I just wish I could know what His will is for them. I believe He wants them to be in a safe home with the gospel, but maybe those are just my hopes. There have been so many miracles getting them this far, I pray they continue today. I am so grateful they have been able to live with their wonderful grandparents so far. I am so grateful they were able to go to church on Sunday and feel of our Heavenly Father's spirit there. They truly are a blessing in our lives, their mom did an amazing job raising them in somewhat difficult circumstances. I know she will be with them at court today, and that she is watching out for them always. Daija and Kayla, know that we Love you no matter what the outcome is today, and we will always be there for you, and will always be praying for you!

More to come when I hear more....